Every year people all make it there business to say what they're going to do to make there life better.. I, at one point in my life, used to participate in the same ritual. Then once I really saw, how like holidays, people used this time of year as some kind or hoping point, year after year, I let it go. I mean I do have the usual, I hope next years better, but I never let a new year be the reason for change in my life. I work on me on a daily basis, and try never to let annual events be the cause if some great epiphany that tends to show up year after year, eventually giving you false hope of change. I look at some people around me that try and give themselves time to make a change in there lives instead of initiating the change at the moment the idea was conceived. I feel if i change a little about me daily then by the time New Years, my birthday, or any other as we call them, turning point in my life comes along, I'll already have made the adjustment instead of telling myself that it's time to enforce it.
What I do hope for at this time of year is that people use all the holiday spirit to change the way that they treat, view, and or categorize people. I mean it's sad when once upon a time you were friends, cool, or cordial with so many people, then as time pass by they feel just because they've went in another direction other than you, they have to make you out to be something you're not. Some people, in my opinion, should never be put in a highchair. they fail to realize that the reason for it isn't to look down at others but to be able to enjoy what life has at the table in front of them. I mean why waste your time looking down on others. The spot light's big enough for everyone. And just cause the wind's filling your sail today, don't mean it's going to blow in your direction tomorrow.
On another note I don't know what this year's going to bring. But what eva it is I'll handle it the same way I've done everything else that have come my way in this life I've been blessed to live. I'm going to live my life according to what makes me happy. I still refuse to let the thought and words of others, when pertaining to me, affect the way i perform in life on a day to day basis. People don't make me, but as with anyone, they do force me to evaluate my life and improve on my current situations. My goal is to never be batter than anyone. My goal is simply to be a better person, and live my life to the fullest. Happy New Years Everyone...
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